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  • Be Happy

    by Delaney Ray | Feb 21, 2018
    I, personally, have had a seriously rough past few months. I had a break from this when I went to Ireland for three months and had a blast, but when I came home, I returned to hard times. I won’t go into the details of my own personal time; but I am sure that all of you, at one point or another, have experienced something very similar. Through this, I have realized that the majority of my hard time has come from the way that I react to certain situations and what I allow to get under my skin. I read a quote yesterday that hit me hard and I now have it as my phone screensaver: “You are far too smart to be the only thing standing in your way.” As soon as I read the quote, it dawned on me that if we can find a way to alter our point of view on the various events in our lives, maybe, just maybe, things will improve. Now, to clarify, I am not implying that any of you are the cause of the bad in your life nor that changing your point of view will be the magic trick that fixes everything; but I am simply asking you all to consider it and attempt this point of view change. For me, I have simply decided to try to be happy. It took me a while to fully determine what that involves, but I finally figured it out, and I know I will need to actively work on it every day. It’s not easy. I didn’t just decide to be happy and then like a magician performing a magic trick all my troubles went poof into thin air! It’s a lot of work. But it’s absolutely 100% totally worth the work! Talk to people you trust, maybe friends, family, or reach out to our counselors on campus (they are amazing!). Surround yourself with people who want to see you at your best happy-self and work on your personal selves! Good luck my fellow stressed students, and just know that you are not alone!


    Delaney-Ray

    Delaney Ray '19 is a Psychology and Sociology double major with a minor in Criminal Justice. She works as a Student Orientation Leader and a Library Desk Assistant in addition to blogging for MU. She never thought she would be a blogger, and her dream job is to work for the FBI in the behavioral unit.
  • Manchester and Mediation

    by Zander Willoughby | Feb 21, 2018

    Conflict is inevitable. As a student of political science and peace studies, this is abundantly clear. Did you know that Manchester has a long history with a mediation center that does mediations between students for free? I bet you didn’t, but you should! ECR (Education for Conflict Resolution) is located in the basement of the Administration building. ECR offers trainings for students throughout the year, there’s also a peace studies course (Mediation & Conciliation) you can take for credit!
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    What is Mediation? Usually, when someone settles a dispute or deescalates an argument, they say, “I mediated the situation” or “We mediated it.” This usually isn’t actually a mediation. Mediation is a process through which individuals come to an understanding and make an agreement with the help of a neutral third-party mediator. This agreement is made by the participants themselves and not by the mediator. Mediation is a form of alternative dispute resolution (ADR) which means that it seeks to resolve conflict without using mediation, sort of like arbitration, except the agreement comes from the participants not the mediator (I said this twice because it’s important). In my opinion, I can’t think of a more empowering means of settling interpersonal conflict. For example, if a case is decided by a judge (Or an RA, HD, CRB, Professor, etc.), then the decision is imposed upon the participants rather they like it or not, in mediation, since the decision comes from the participants, they have a stake in the outcome. Mediation is also based on the relationship between the people; it doesn’t seek to punish people, but to find understanding and restoring relationships.
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    I didn’t know about the relationship between ECR and Manchester, or about Manchester’s rich history with transformative conflict resolution. I took Mediation and Conciliation with John Horn in the fall not knowing anything about mediation or the process and immediately signed up for an ECR training called Productive Communication and ECR’s spring mediation training and you should, too! Every field requires good communication skills and every field runs into conflict at some point! The skills learned in mediation training and the productive communication workshops can be applied to any field, not just peace studies.
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    Have a conflict with a roommate? Friend? RA? E-Board member? Group project member? Professor? Try mediation! You can contact ECR online or go to Room #6 in the Administration Building.



    Zander-Willoughby
    Zander E. Willoughby ’18 is a Political Science & French major & Peace Studies minor, a Multicultural Affairs Programmer, and more. He is currently in his last year at Manchester and painfully aware of that fact every day. He is currently learning French and Arabic, loves cooking and amateur photography. His future plans include pursuing a Master's in International Affairs in the hopes of working with Migration, Refugee Affairs, and Human Rights.


  • 101

    by Katie Byers | Feb 08, 2018

    101. For Manchester, this is a significant number. Freshman year, we celebrate 101 days of being on campus. It’s a pivotal point of freshman year when you finally begin to feel like Manchester is your new home away from home. You know your way around campus, how things work, and recognize just about everyone as you wander around the mall or eat in the union. Fast-forward 4 years and you celebrate another 101 days. This time, it’s 101 days until commencement. Manchester IS your home and everyone here IS your Spartan family. Tonight, I celebrated my 101 days.

     

    Tonight, we received the letters we wrote to our future selves on the first day during SOL week. The last line of my letter read, “I hope these next 4 years don’t change you and take every opportunity that comes your way”. I couldn’t have been any more wrong. College did change me. It changed me for the better and I’m so thankful it did. I have opened my mind to new ideas and ways of thinking. I involved myself in clubs and activities that never would have crossed my mind freshman year. Coming into college, I hated English, writing, and really anything creative. I was a very science-minded, black and white, type AAA personality. What am I doing now? I write blogs, shoot and edit videos for the marking department, and create recruiting content for the basketball team. I have been able to unlock my creative side and develop better writing skills. Freshman year I wondered how I would ever make it through as a biology-chemistry major. Academically I have grown tremendously. My study habits have improved and my tendency to cram has diminished. I made it through organic and picked up a business minor along the way. I also decided to step outside my comfort zone and study abroad for a whole semester. I left behind everything I knew to live in another country for 4.5 months and it was the best decision of my life. I really grew as a person in New Zealand. I gained confidence in myself and realized I was capable of so much more than I thought. I gained a new sense of independence and appreciation for life. Coming in freshman year I could have never imagined what 4 years at Manchester had in store for me. None of the things I accomplished were mentioned in my letter. Why? Because I didn’t even know it was possible freshman year, that’s what 4 years at Manchester does to you. It changes you. It changes you into a person of ability and conviction ready to take on the real-world after graduation.

     

    So what does 101 mean to me? It is a realization of just how fast time goes by. For the next 101 days, I need to take advantage of every opportunity to connect with new people and strengthen relationships I already have. I have to savor every moment I have left of living with my best friends while being surrounded by a community that cares. I have to make the most of the next 101 days because they will be over in just a blink of an eye. Commencement will come and go, but the memories, lessons, and the family I gained while at Manchester will stay with me for the rest of my life.


    Katie-Byers
    Katie Byers '18 is a biology-chemistry major & business minor. A member of MAC and STAT, she studied abroad in New Zealand, and her dream job is to work at an orthopedic hospital. 
  • We Can All Do More: Living in Beloved Community

    by Virginia Rendler | Feb 07, 2018

    On February 1, I had the privilege of attending the Martin Luther King Jr. Remembrance and Rededication Ceremony at Manchester University. This was the 50th anniversary of Dr. King’s visit to Manchester in 1968, his last before his assassination. If you did not attend this event, I am hoping that this account provides a representation of the inspiration and awe that I felt after this ceremony.  

    I recognize that I am perhaps not the best person to share how this legacy or this ceremony affects my daily life at Manchester. I am a privileged, young white woman who has not faced much discrimination. In this vein, I simply hope to provide a recap and some powerful quotes that I noted and wish to revisit some of the incredible points made in this presentation.  

    The VIA opened with Chris Ford & Power of Praise singing selected hymns. I won’t spend much time on the music, only because there is no possible way to express in words the power and passion that this group had. I can only highly encourage you to look up Chris Ford and his group, because the powerful and tremendous music brought an element of passion and reverence to the event that is indescribable. Following this performance, Michael Dixon introduced the first speaker, Myron Chenault.  

    Myron Chenault, ’71, told us that he spoke with both extreme happiness and sadness on this day. Sadness, he said, because he would rather speak about a man who was still with us. He said that Dr. King “provided the boots so that others could pull themselves up by their bootstraps.” Chenault was happy, however, because Dr. King’s visit was one of the most exciting days of his life. He expressed the isolation of being a black person on the Manchester campus in 1968. “There were more African Americans at my dinner table at home than on campus,” he recalled. He said that Dr. King discussed the theory of light; that we can either relish in the light of creative altruism or in relegate ourselves into dark selfishness. Dr. King also said, "he who is devoid of the power to forgive is devoid of the power to love, and violence multiplies violence in a descending spiral." Dr. King and Chenault believed in Manchester and its mission, striving towards intellectual and spiritual development. 

    Follow Myron Chenault’s address, Sue Wells, ’70, spoke to the auditorium. She recalled exactly where she sat and what she wore on the day Dr. King came to campus. Wells was the only black person in her graduating class, out of six total on campus. When she saw Dr. King, she felt like her heart would leave her chest. She said his presentation was art that held you in awe, it felt like he knew intimately the rejection and fear that she felt during integration. “He must have known my heart,” she said. When she sat with Dr. King face to face, he was human, normal, and down to earth. He noticed every person at that table and talked to them. Wells reminded us of Dr. King’s call; to give ourselves to the struggle until the very end- nothing would be more tragic than to give up now.  

    The next speaker, Steve Stone, ’69, had four generations of family attend Manchester. He is a white man who did not grow up experiencing other cultures, but is now heavily involved in the Black Church Coalition in Lexington, Kentucky. He told us that we can all become involved at race relations, and encouraged Manchester to consider diversity in the students they enroll, faculty and staff they employ, art and scholars they reference, to include black authors on reading lists for classes, and to practice sensitivity and skill towards minority populations. “Racism is more akin to cancer than polio,” he said. “Polio has been eradicated.” Although we are making strides every day, the cancer of racism is still around us. 

    Jo Young Switzer, ’69, remembers how Dr. King listened, laughed, and asked questions of the students. He asked them, “what are you doing about race relations?” Switzer asked us to reflect; what would you say if someone asked you that now? Would you have an answer, or could you do more? It is the responsibility of those with privilege to address this issue. 

    The keynote speaker of the event was Reverend Otis Moss III. He called Dr. King one of the greatest prophets America has ever produced. The Reverend reminded us to not lift the sanitized version of Dr. King, the one America has become comfortable with now that he is safely dead. Instead we should lift up King’s legacy of resistance to any system that was unjust, whether that resistance was popular or not. We have a responsibility to open the door for someone else, the way many have opened doors for us. We have a responsibility to thank those that took the bruises that were intended for you. We have a responsibility to acknowledge that without people of every nationality and ethnicity, we would not be able to enjoy the freedom and culture that we do without thought or thanks. I encourage you all to look into Reverend Otis Moss’ sermons. Whether you are religious or not, I am confident that his tremendous eloquence and compelling communication will move you.  

    I think this VIA exemplified what Manchester does and should continue to lift up. A legacy of nonviolent resistance, standing up to injustice, and celebration of diversity. A continuation of the beloved community.  

    Sermons by Reverend Otis Moss III:  

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EmD4katcO_0 

    VirginiaRendler

    Virginia Rendler ’20 is a Peace Studies major, and is hoping to double major in English, as well as double minor in Spanish and Visual Art. She loves animals and is a Leo. 

  • Get to Know Me

    by Nick Rush | Feb 07, 2018

    Hey, everyone! It’s been a while since my last post, and it’s been even longer since I told you about myself. So, here is an updated post about who I am and what I’m all about!

    I’m a sophomore from Terre Haute, IN, which is about a 3-hour drive. I’m double a major in Sports Management and Marketing while minoring in Sales. I play baseball for MU – normally infield, but I pitch a little too. I love all things sports related and am a huge fan of the the Boston Red Sox, St. Louis Cardinals, Indianapolis Colts, Cleveland Cavaliers, Miami Heat, Indiana State basketball (hometown), and Kentucky basketball. I’m busy with schools and baseball but I always find time to stay involved on campus! I have three on campus jobs and four clubs.

    • Job – Social Media Ambassador
    • Job – Spartan Ambassador
    • Job – Sports Information Student Assistant
    • Club – College of Business Club, Programming Committee Director
    • Club – Students Today Alumni Tomorrow (STAT)
    • Club – Student Senate
    • Club – Student Senate, Student Relations Committee

    So, what else is there to know about me? Well, I taught myself how to play guitar and have been playing for about 1 ½ years. I’m not great, but practice makes perfect! I also know the bare basics of drumming. When I have free time I either like to play my guitar, video games, preferably Call of Duty and Fortnite, or hang out with my friends.

    With baseball season coming up, my schedule will be hectic and busy. I’ll have five classes, baseball, work and homework. It’ll be busy but I’m looking forward to the semester ahead! One thing I’m looking forward to is submitting my study abroad application! I really want to study abroad next fall at the University of Barcelona, and I’ll be turning in my application soon! So be on the lookout, because you all will know if I get accepted. I’m excited to pick up blogging again, so stay tuned to see what I have in store this semester! 
    NickRush
    Nick Rush ’20 is studying Sports Management and plans on minoring in another business area. He plays baseball for MU, and he plans on working in the sports industry after graduation.

  • The Great Balancing Act

    by Becca Kaplan | Jan 29, 2018

    In case you haven’t heard, college is hard. From the classes, to everyone trying to figure out where they fit in and who they want to be, the road to higher education is a long and strenuous road. Don’t get me wrong though, life as a college student can be pretty cool, too. It’s like, we’re the group of adults that are too young to be called “grown-ups”, but too old to watch Spongebob Squarepants in our jammies on Saturday mornings, without being judged by our elders. NEWFLASH: we are adults, and we deserve to be held to the same standards as every other adult in our lives. Some students may not necessarily agree with this, but from someone who’s been in this stage far longer than they should have been, it’s time to grow up. I want to be a grown up. I want to pursue my goals, do what’s best for me, and live my life without nay-sayers exclaiming, “she’s too young to know what she wants!”

    Here at Manchester, President Dave McFadden, along with the faculty and staff, encourage us to be our best selves; they want us to succeed. After all, we are the future. Think about it: 10 years from now, your college roommate could be a State Senator, and that kid that sits next to you in your Biology class could be a Surgical Resident at one of the best hospitals in the country. It’s insane, I know, but yet it’s so true. Life is a crazy, wonderful journey, but it’s whatever crazy, wonderful journey we make it.

    With all of this said, here’s some food for thought: what did you set out to accomplish in college? How can you make those dreams become a reality? If you can answer these questions, with confidence, then perhaps finding yourself will not be so hard, after all. For me, it took flying across the pond and spending four months in Europe to figure out what exactly I want out of college, and who I wanted to be. After coming back, and thinking about all that I had learned, seen, and done, I know that I’m “the Sun”, and anyone who thinks differently is not worth my time; thank you, Shonda Rhimes, for that awesome quote. I can do whatever, and be whoever, I choose. I choose to be happy, to love a wonderful man, to pursue a degree in Spanish Secondary Education, and to never let anything/anyone change me. Life is like a great balancing act, but ya know, I have a feeling that it is so worth all of the struggles you may or may not be going through right now.
    Until next time
    – B.
    BeccaKaplan
    Becca Kaplan ’19, is a Spanish Secondary Education major with minors in TESOL and Business. As a commuter student, she spends most of her time on campus either studying, watching Netflix, or writing her next blog post. When classes are not in session, Becca usually travels, either visiting her parents in Florida, or her extended family in St. Louis.

  • Peace Studies Conference: Learning Together

    by Zander Willoughby | Jan 19, 2018
     
    Last Thursday at 5:00 am, 12 students piled into the University bus with our professors Katy Gray-Brown and Elton Skendaj for a 566 mile, 10.5 hour drive to Birmingham, Alabama with only one Waffle House stop! Why would we subject ourselves to this? For the annual Peace and Justice Studies Association conference, of course! This yearly conference bring together professors, professionals, and students from all around the U.S. and Canada to discuss the field of Peace and Justice studies. Most of the conference consisted of research presentations with discussion. Our very own Katie Jo Breidenbach Wooding presented her research, “Conscientious Objection & Draft Resistance: The Vietnam War” and Elton Skendaj presented on “Student Stories: Using Digital Media for Civic Engagement in Peace Studies Courses.” They were both great!
     
    Apart from sitting in lectures and panels for 8 hours a day, we went as a group to the Birmingham Civil Rights Institute which is right across from the Sixteenth Street Church which was bombed by extremists against the civil rights movement: Attending a peace & justice studies conference with the theme “From Civil Rights to Human Rights” in Birmingham, Alabama gave the conference a unique perspective. We live in a time where the subject of civil and human rights are both in question and are more important than ever. Debating them in a city with such a long history of oppression, violence, resistance, and nonviolence serves as a reminder to the progress this country has made, but also just how much more this country needs to make. I went to panel discussions on various topics related to peace and justice. My favorite was called, “Peace building in Africa;” it discussed how NGOs become party to land disputes in Eastern DRC, the negative effects of forced disarmament, and customary law in Uganda bringing cattle rustling to an end. As a group, one of our favorite panels was about how to get a job in peace and justice (if anyone has any tips, feel free to email me) in today’s economy. It really made me realize how strong of a peace studies program we have at Manchester and how lucky we are to have such amazing alumni is so many amazing place!


    Zander-Willoughby
    Zander E. Willoughby ’18 is a Political Science & French major & Peace Studies minor, a Multicultural Affairs Programmer, and more. He is currently in his last year at Manchester and painfully aware of that fact every day. He is currently learning French and Arabic, loves cooking and amateur photography. His future plans include pursuing a Master's in International Affairs in the hopes of working with Migration, Refugee Affairs, and Human Rights.
  • Say Yes to Adventure

    by Delaney Ray | Jan 19, 2018

        Now I am not saying you have to go full Jim Carrey in the “Yes Man” movie, but saying yes every once in a while is a great thing! As many of you probably know, I am not a spontaneous person. I normally have to plan out everything to the tiny little details (I get it from my mom: Thanks Tina). Before coming to Ireland, I told myself that I would try new things and I would be as adventurous as I could be. So far, I have booked plane tickets on a whim, tagged along to Dublin without a second thought, and hopped on tours without overthinking. Some of these decisions worked out better than others and some could have used a little more time and consideration, but I am proud of my new-found spontaneity! One weekend, a friend of mine got injured and had to go to the hospital while a bunch of us were on a tour (on the opposite side of the country!). So two other friends and I just hopped off the bus and headed to the hospital without a plan of what to do or where to stay. We ended up finding a hostel and a way back home the next day and everything worked out for the best! In fact, that weekend is probably one of my favorites so far!

    There are perfect times in life to plan out every detail, but there are also perfect times to just wing it. Don’t ever get stuck in a routine without a little bit of excitement! It will definitely be more of a challenge to continue this impulsiveness when I return home, but I am surely going to try my best. Here are some ideas to help spur spontaneous adventures back in North Manchester:

    • Hop on the train and head to Chicago for the day
    • Drive to a new town and just see what is there
    • Try a new restaurant
    • Go for a drive and see where you end up
    • Have a friend plan a secret day out and about and go along with it, no questions asked!
    Delaney-Ray
    Delaney Ray '19 is a Psychology and Sociology double major with a minor in Criminal Justice. She works as a Student Orientation Leader and a Library Desk Assistant in addition to blogging for MU. She never thought she would be a blogger, and her dream job is to work for the FBI in the behavioral unit.
  • It Will All Be Okay

    by Delaney Ray | Jan 19, 2018

    It Will All Be Okay

                My entire study abroad experience thus far has consisted of me telling myself “it will all be okay”, over and over again. Sometimes, you just have to give yourself small pep talks! Stepping out of our comfort zone is scary and hard to do, but so worth it. I have been a Student Orientation Leader (SOL) for two years now and have talked to many first-year students about fears of heading into college and everything that entails. I tried to be as understanding and helpful as possible, but I was never fully able to empathize since I had never experienced something similar. I live about five minutes from campus so when my parents dropped me off at Garver Hall my first year, they just said “see you this weekend for dinner” and headed out the door. But now, being 3,000 miles away, I finally understand what my SOL babies go through every year, and it’s hard. But, I have also come to the realization that you just have to push through and “it will all be okay!” Try new things, step out of your comfort zone, and celebrate little victories every day! Some days, I travel to new places and other days, my small victory is just simply crawling out of bed and making myself dinner. This past weekend I went on a tour all by myself to Northern Ireland and I have never been so proud of myself! To any first years: I am so proud of you, you are doing so so amazing, just keep pushing through! We must learn to love and appreciate ourselves for the things we do and always remember that everything will end up just fine!


    Delaney-Ray
    Delaney Ray '19 is a Psychology and Sociology double major with a minor in Criminal Justice. She works as a Student Orientation Leader and a Library Desk Assistant in addition to blogging for MU. She never thought she would be a blogger, and her dream job is to work for the FBI in the behavioral unit.
  • Positivity Push

    by Katie Byers | Oct 22, 2017

    What’s Up Spartans!

    We’ve hit that point in the semester where everyone has the common feeling that they’re drowning in schoolwork, a bit under the weather, and just want to go home for the holiday season. I don’t know about you, but right around this time I need a positivity push in my life – even if it’s just a small daily reminder to appreciate the little things in life. Here are a few ways to brighten up your life:

    1. Check of the Life is Good website: http://content.lifeisgood.com/positive-state/ With so much negativity in our current media avenues, this website is a positive platform filled with feel-good heartfelt stories from across the country.
    2. Set Goals: This may sound a little bit cliché, but write your goals down and hang it above your bed. Every day, the first thing you see when you wake up and the last thing you see before you go to bed will be the things you want in life. I don’t know what could be more motivating and reassuring.
    3. Make a List of Accomplishments: In today’s society so many people focus on other’s flaws and what they are doing wrong. Instead of filling your head with negativity, make a list of all the accomplishments you have done and remind yourself weekly that you are successful and a positive impact on the world.
    4. Highs & Lows: At dinner every Sunday night with friends, I like to remind myself that in life there are highs and lows but no matter what, you’ll always get through it. It is a way for me to positively garner my energy and remind myself that no matter how bad a week may seem, there is always something good that comes out of it. And no matter how good a week is, there is something that I can take from the week and grow as a person and learn from it.
    5. Positivity Jar: As an apartment, we have a jar in our living room where we write down something that we are thankful for or something positive that happened in our life. At the end of the year, we will be able to read them and remember that something positive happened each and every day.
    6. Church or Small Group Bible Study: Personally, I enjoy my Sunday meetings to get together with a group of people to reflect on life. I strive to strengthen my relationship with God and it helps me to refocus and start my week off on a positive note.
    Katie-Byers

    Katie Byers '18 is a biology-chemistry major & business minor. A member of MAC and STAT, she studied abroad in New Zealand, and her dream job is to work at an orthopedic hospital. 

  • London, A Fan Girl's Dream

    by Jensen Lassiter | Oct 22, 2017

    So, I know that it goes without saying, that Harry Potter is a massive success, not only in the States, but globally. Luckily, Harry Potter was born in the U.K. and naturally a lot of the setting and locations are centered around the U.K. I would be lying if I said that I wasn’t absolutely in love with the entire series, so naturally I wanted to see these sites for myself!

    So, on Sunday, my friend Taylor and I did! We went on a guided Harry Potter Tour around London.

    Our first stop took us to Leadenhall Market, which is the famous site of the entrance to The Leaky Cauldron. We were able to retrace Harry and Hagrid’s steps as they first introduced us to the magical world.

    Our next stop took us to Millennium Bridge, where the infamous Death Eaters destroyed the bridge in Central London. Fortunately no muggles were harmed in the making of the film!

    We also visited Kings Cross Station, where Harry and his friends embark for Hogwarts. We were able to see the platform in which Harry and Ron try to run into, when Dobby blocks the platform. Unfortunately Platform 9 3/4 doesn’t actually exist in the railway, the actual platform they used for filming was near platform 5. Platform 9 3/4 does however exist in the main station. Once there, avid fans get to queue up for a photo with the platform sign and a trolly halfway between the barrier! Naturally we donned our house scarves and snapped a few pics!

    The last stop, and the best one by far, was a tour of The Warner Bros. Studio Tour, The Making Of Harry Potter.

    On the massive tour, we were able to see amazing props and actual movie sets! We were able to walk around the Great Hall and see character dummies dressed in the real and authentic costumes! The Forbidden Forest was crawling with massive spiders and the real Aragog! The Gryffindor Common room was just as real and inviting as in the movies, Malfoy Manor was, however, not! We were able to step foot inside of Snape’s Potions classroom and actually make a bit of potions ourselves! Perhaps the best part was walking the streets of the actual Diagon Alley. The shops looked incredible, like the sets haven’t been touched since the last day of filming. At the end of the tour, a massive replica of Hogwarts is on display. This replica was used for aerial shots of the grounds. 

    The gift shop is well equipped for even the most loyal fan. It has massive displays for every house, so there is ample opportunities to represent your house colors! And, if you’re like me, you can buy an actual Olivander’s replica wands, which is pretty spectacular!

    London is such a fantastic place to visit if you love all things Harry Potter! There are so many inspired shops and places to visit here. There are still so many sites I have yet to explore! One fandom down, a few more to go!

    Cheers!

    JensenLassiter

    Jensen Lassiter ‘19 is an English major. She is currently working as a blogger for MU and is studying abroad in London, England this fall. Her dream job is to be an English and Creative Writing Professor.
  • The Importance of a Barber

    by Nathan Timmerman | Oct 22, 2017

    Often as humans grow older, we become too caught up in our busy schedules in this chaotic game of life to slow down and appreciate the smaller things. As a 20-year-old young man, I can count on one hand how many times I have been to a “professional” for a haircut. My entire life my aunt has cut my hair, except for the few occasions when the timing did not allow, and I was forced to resort to going elsewhere. There was no rhyme or reason to my preference; I had always just perceived haircuts as a chore and had never been too picky, so I would just show up and she just cut whatever amount of hair that she felt she need to. Even as a junior in college, I still wait until I travel home to schedule my haircut with my aunt, which has always taken place in the comfort of her house. Until now.

    I haven’t been able to travel to my hometown and schedule a haircut appointment with my aunt lately due to my crazy schedule, so I decided to go to Manchester Barbershop, about three minutes from MU. Prior to this, I had never been to a barbershop and I wasn’t quite sure of the difference between a barbershop and a hair salon; I just needed someone to cut my hair, regardless of what the establishment was named. A barbershop traditionally caters to shorter hair, namely men’s hair, so a man greeted me when I entered. As I mentioned earlier, haircuts are just chores for me, so the only expectation I had was that my hair was to be a shorter length when I exit the barbershop than when I entered, nothing special. To my surprise, the barber went far and beyond my expectations, turning my “chore” into a now enjoyable experience.

    It wasn’t that the barber owned some special gadget that magically transformed my hair or anything silly like that. From the moment I parked my car, I noticed various little things that this particular barber did that impacted the quality of my day, starting with his hours of operation listed on the door. I had decided to visit in between classes, with only an hour to accomplish my task. It was 9 a.m., making him the only place in town that was open for a haircut at this time, and his hours were 6 a.m. – 6 p.m. that day. After noticing the convenience, I walk in to be greeted with high energy and a smile by the barber, who invited me to take a seat in the small empty building. Continuing to provide excellent service, he somehow understood all my unspoken needs from the moment I walked in. The man repeated my haircut request back to me, notifying me that he actually listened, and then, without me having to say anything he states, “We’ll get you out of here in no time.” The positivity was what appealed to me at first, but for the man to respect my time and understand my needs as a customer so easily, I was shocked. I was shocked because he was genuine. The man treated me like an adult, which is rather uncommon due to my baby face. The man’s price was affordable, especially when considering the service. He performed the haircut very well, and the conversation during the haircut was authentic, kind, and interesting. Halfway through I came to the realization that this man was not in the hair business, but instead, the people business.

    I have now found my new barbershop, and I will no longer be driving over an hour just for a haircut from a family member. Prior to this experience, I had never had a good day just because of the outstanding customer service that I received. But, at 9:00 in the morning, for a few minutes, I was not getting a haircut by some guy that owns a barbershop, but rather, a friend. I had never understood why people take so much pride in where they go to get their hair cut or styled, but I now understand why every man needs a good barber. Whether it be a man and a barbershop or a lady and a hair salon, I strongly believe that everyone needs that someone in their life. Going to a quality barbershop where I was treated with respected and great service allowed me to get away from all the craziness and just relax. Being able to stop and appreciate the little things, like a receiving a great haircut from a kind barber, allows one to resume a busy schedule feeling refreshed, confident, and encouraged. So, next time try out the Manchester Barbershop, or at the very least, try to enjoy the small things in life and allow yourself to appreciate the positivity that others spread. 

    Nathan-Timmerman

    Nathan Timmerman ’18 is a marketing and sales double major and entrepreneurship minor. Aside from his involvement in the College of Business, he enjoys volunteering in his free time. Lord willing, Nathan’s post-graduation plan is to build his career in the business industry. 

  • Get Involved

    by Nick Rush | Oct 22, 2017

    In college it seems like you’ll have so much time for homework, to hang out with friends, and basically just do whatever you want. But what happens when you finish your homework or your friends are busy? I know I would be bored out of my mind watching Netflix. However, I combat that issue with what I believe students should do on this campus – by getting involved.

    • Baseball team member
    • Spartan Ambassador in Admissions
    • Social Media Ambassador in Marketing
    • Sports Information Student Assistant
    • College of Business Club Programming Committee Director
    • STAT member
    • Student Senate – Student Relations Committee

    That is a list of everything I am involved in on campus. How busy am I? Extremely. Would I change anything? Not a chance. I’m getting great experiences: public speaking, planning/running events, networking, leading my own committee, and countless others.

    How did I get involved in all this? I found both Admissions/Marketing jobs by applying on Spartan Jobs through the Manchester website. The Sports Info job I obtained after volunteering to work a tournament, where the entire volunteer time lasted a couple of months. As for the clubs I’m in, I received an email about the CBC and Student Senate, and I was nominated to be part of STAT. Each of these organizations had their own hiring process, where most required a formal interview; only Student Senate and Sports Info did not.

    I do want to share one personal experience I had by being involved. Last semester I applied for a summer on-campus position. I was given the position and, because I did well (or at least I’d like to think I did) I was given the opportunity to speak at an event earlier this semester. The event was called Walk Into My Future, and it was where MU brought nearly 3,000 elementary schoolers to campus to do several activities outside. When they were all on campus, I was given the opportunity to speak to them all, including all the MU students, facility, and staff who had volunteered. It was the biggest crowd I had ever spoken to and still is to today. On that day, I also met President McFadden and spoke with him for a few minutes. Below is a picture of me speaking to the kids.

    WIMF

    Below are links for MU’s clubs and for the on-campus jobs via the website. I’ve met great people, made great memories, and have had great opportunities that enhanced my time here. Though I do a lot, I still have plenty of personal time, where I use it to do my homework, hang out with my friends, and just relax. If you’re not already involved, considering changing that because I’m sure you won’t regret it.

    Manchester’s Clubs website:

    https://www.manchester.edu/student-life/student-experience-center/activities/clubs-and-organizations

    Applying for an on-campus job:

    https://www.manchester.edu/academics/student-success-center/Career-and-Professional-Development-Office/students

    NickRush
    Nick Rush ’20 is studying Sports Management and plans on minoring in another business area. He plays baseball for MU, and he plans on working in the sports industry after graduation.

  • Education Is Power

    by Ciara Knisely | Oct 13, 2017

    Okay, Spartans. It’s time to get serious. Knowledge really is power.

    How many times have we said the words “I don’t wanna go to school today,” starting in Kindergarten up to now, college? I know I’ve said it probably a million times, and I still think it every time I have to wake up for my 10 a.m. (even though 10 a.m. isn’t that early so I should be grateful).

    But the sad thing is that we are incredibly lucky, yet we take it for granted. We are encouraged, and somewhat forced, to attend school in the United States, and I spent my childhood annoyed at whoever decided that law that says we have to go.

    Until recently, I never really sat down and thought about how lucky I was to be educated.

    Forget high school geometry and translated copies of Mandarin poetry; some children will never learn how to read or write.

    That is something that’s incredibly hard for me to wrap my head around; not only that some people live their entire lives without receiving an education, but also that not all governments even allow education. In my English senior seminar we recently finished the memoir I Am Malala, which tells the story of now-twenty-year-old Malala Yousafzai from Pakistan, who was sixteen when she was shot in the head by a Taliban member for advocating for education for women.

    While Taliban and the Pakistani government battled for power over Pakistan, Malala, her father, and others developed a school that allowed girls to continue their education, but the Taliban highly disapproved, so much that they would kill civilians and leave them in the school’s courtyard with threats via handwritten notes attached the bodies.

    Of course, the story of Pakistan’s government and the Taliban is something else on its own entirely, but it is a war torn country, where girls are forcibly prevented from getting an education because women are considered second-class citizens. A Taliban member later wrote to Malala explaining that she was interrupting their implementation of their branch of Islam, but we can safely assume it was because she was an outspoken advocate for women’s education. Women’s education just happened to violate that branch of religion.

    Can you imagine? Being afraid to walk down the street, hiding your textbooks inside your clothes as you hurry to class, ditching your school uniform because it would give you away to patrolling Taliban, all to go to school and do homework? This is what Malala faced, along with many other girls, and that’s the tip of the iceberg.

    Maybe you are wondering, “Why would anyone do that? Why would you dance so close with death just to go to school?”

    Malala says it better than I could, but her story is worth repeating again and again, because it is so full of truth and power.

    Knowledge gives people freedom, and it’s obvious to people like Malala, who have seen the difference in being educated or not, and what happens to their society when the public or government aren’t adequately educated.

    I can’t say much about what rules the Taliban forced upon boys and men, though I do know that they preferred all citizens to attend a madrasa, a religious school (to be taught Taliban ideologies), instead of a formal school. However, to forcibly, violently, prevent others from receiving an education, or even simple literacy, is a form of manipulation and social terrorism.

    “He believed that lack of education was the root of all of Pakistan’s problems. Ignorance allowed politicians to fool people and bad administrators to be re-elected.”

    -Malala Yousafzai, I Am Malala: The Story of the Girl Who Stood Up for Education and Was Shot by the Taliban

    How would the average Pakistani citizen know what to believe, if one military power tells them one thing and another tells them something different, but they cannot read or write to find out the truth? This is the root of modern, Western vs. Middle Eastern terrorism, in my opinion. Citizens are unknowingly but tactfully socialized and ‘educated’ with information that isn’t always correct or moral, though the same could probably be said about the United States, too.

    My point is that we are here. We attend this amazing school, with amazing professors. There are no threats or dead bodies on the Mall; we will never have to worry about anything remotely similar to Malala’s story. We should be thankful, because we are so freely given the chance to have an education, and we forget that not everyone has the same opportunities.

    But on the same note, I hope that we can use this revelation to enact more good in the world. I am educated, soon to graduate with a bachelor’s degree, and I feel it very deeply that my education needs to go toward something good, something real and honest and meaningful, and Malala’s cause is something worth fighting for, especially now that I see how powerful education and knowledge are.

    “When someone takes away your pens you realize quite how important education is.” 

    ― Malala YousafzaiI Am Malala

    And if you ever need some inspiration, this line is one of my very favorites:

    “If one man can destrpy everything, why can't one girl change it?”

    ― Malala Yousafzai, I Am Malala

    CiaraKnisely
    Ciara Knisely ’18 is an English-Creative Writing major and Journalism minor, and hopes to continue her writing career in the future. She spends her time working at the Writing Center on campus and is a Co-Editor of the Oak Leaves newspaper.  

  • My Favorite Classes

    by Maddy Minehart | Oct 13, 2017

    Hello everyone! With registration coming up, I want to reflect upon my time here regarding the classes I’ve taken so far.  Like I touched on in my last post, I have studied so many subjects at MU; it was hard to create a short list of favorites. I know I’ll garner more in the future, but below are my favorite classes at Manchester (so far) and the reasons behind their rank. I encourage each of you to check them out! The professors are wonderful, the topics are fascinating, and I learned so much in a short semester. Plus, you can get CORE credit for each. 😊

    4. HIST-204: Modern Europe with Dr. Angelos

    My favorite history class so far! I much prefer modern history to ancient, so I was definitely excited to take a modern course! My particular area of interest is in European history from the 20th century on, so this class was right up my alley; it covered major events from the French Revolution to the Brexit. Plus, Dr. Angelos is a great professor – there’s never a dull moment during his lectures.

    3. REL-120: Introduction to Religious Studies with Dr. Eisenbise Crell

     “Even if religion makes no sense to you, you need to make sense of religion to make sense of the world.” This Stephen Prothero quote was printed on the front of our syllabus, and I couldn’t agree with it more. REL-120 is a class I think everyone should take! In it we were introduced to major world religions, how those religions addressed the fundamental problems humans face, and how religious beliefs influence society. And, Dr. EC is an amazing professor – she’s one of my favorite people to talk to!

    2. SOC-101: Introduction to Sociology with Dr. Pettit

    This class was incredibly difficult, but so worth it! The material was so unfamiliar to me – I learned about systemic oppression, privilege, life chances. These were all new ideas to me; I would often walk out of class astonished by Dr. Pettit’s lectures. Out of all my classes here, SOC-101 has left the most profound effect on me. Things I learned helped shape many of my political and personal views. I am grateful to have been a part of Dr. Pettit’s last class! (Dr. Brooks now teaches this class, and she’s great too!)

    1. REL-131: The Jewish Faith, Culture and People with Dr. Planer

    Hands down my favorite class! Dr. Planer was so engaged with our class, and we knew he truly cared about each of us. One day, he brought in a shofar (a Jewish musical horn made from a ram’s horn) and blew it incredibly loudly… at 8:00 AM. We were all kind of in shock, but it was just one of many moments where he showed how excited he was about the content of the class!  Dr. Planer is one of the most vivacious people I have ever come across, and he’s brilliant. He’s retired from teaching at Manchester (he’s a professor emeritus of music), but he audits classes and is often on campus. REL-131 is what spurred my interest in Judaic studies (what I plan to focus on in my senior thesis for history), and it was such a fun class. It was difficult (as all Planer classes are), but an awesome experience.

    I’m grateful for the academic opportunities I have here. The list above is just a sample of the great classes I’ve taken and the incredible faculty members I’ve studied under. I encourage you all to explore your interests and really dive into your classes – you have so much to learn!  

    Thanks for reading!

    Maddy
    Maddy-Minehart
    Maddy Minehart '19 is a history and religious studies double major. A member of the women's basketball team and heavily involved on campus, her dream job is to be a history professor.

  • Turn Left For England

    by Jensen Lassiter | Oct 13, 2017

    One of the most amazing parts of studying abroad in England thus far is the extra opportunities to travel around Europe. In just four short weeks, I’ve been able to travel to four other countries, countries that I wouldn’t easily be able to access from the states without putting a massive dent into my savings. 

    One of the most rewarding parts of being able to travel is seeing new places and meeting new people from all walks of life. It’s quite amazing visiting places that you read about in history books, or in art class, or in literature class. 

    Two weeks ago, I was fortunate enough to visit Paris. For me, Paris had never been a bucket list city, yet suddenly for this experience, it seemed to climb the list rapidly. Paris wasn’t quite what I had expected. I was lucky to see the most iconic sights and walk down crowded avenues that were famous around the world. There was so much I got to see, yet it wasn’t enough. Paris quickly became a city that I knew I would have to visit again in the future. I crossed off major sights like the Arc De Triomphe, and the Eiffel Tower. I saw the house where Picasso lived and worked, and Bastille. 

    One city crossed off, but only a hundred more left to explore.

    Last weekend, a group of my friends and I traveled through France, Belgium, and the Netherlands. We traveled to Calais, France and were able to explore the ports before setting off to Amsterdam for a few days. In Amsterdam my friends and I explored the many canals as well as a few museums. We took a boat cruise down the canals as well as walked through the infamous Red Light District. We took a side trip to two smaller cities, Edam and Volendam. Edam is approximately the size of Manchester, and so incredibly charming. Families ran little shops and made delicate chocolates.

    One museum in particular held special importance. We toured the Anne Frank House. Inside was one of the most amazing experiences, but very melancholy. It was really special to stand inside a small space that made such an impact on modern history. Learning in an actual, real life environment is something that really cannot be replicated inside the walls of a classroom, and I’ll never be able to truly explain how it felt to be there. 

    From Amsterdam we traveled to Bruges, Belgium, or Brugge. Brugge hands down became my favorite city I’ve visited thus far. The medieval city was radically different from central London. It was beautiful and picturesque, the type of quaintness you would think of in the scenic countryside. There we explored markets and little local owned shops. We scarfed down Belgian frites, or fries, using mayonnaise instead of ketchup. Believe me when I say I can never go back! We also had a delicious Belgian waffle with chocolate sauce and bananas.

    Coming home we traveled again through Calais. We visited the coastal white cliffs of Dover which were simply spectacular. We were able to view the ancient castle high up on the cliffs and learn mini history lessons from our tour guide. 

    We had a slight delay in our return from France, as UK border control is rather fierce. After our visas and passports were nearly triple checked, our customs agents directed us to the left, left towards England. 

    While it’s only been a few short weeks, I’ve been fortunate enough to be able to explore new places and cities. Many more weekend trips have been planned and I cannot wait to share with you where I go next! I’ve learned so much about the histories of new countries that I don’t know a lot about. It’s fascinating to learn about places in a classroom setting, or in history lectures, but it’s even more amazing to see these places in real life. It makes the world seem so much smaller, and it’s a feeling that I hope never goes away!

    Be sure to check out my posts on Instagram to follow along with me!

    Cheers!!

    JensenLassiter
    Jensen Lassiter ‘19 is an English major. She is currently working as a blogger for MU and is studying abroad in London, England this fall. Her dream job is to be an English and Creative Writing Professor.

  • Don't Let Your Major Define You

    by Katie Byers | Oct 10, 2017

    Manchester is all about becoming your best self, right? Right. To become my best self, I feel that I need to be a well-rounded person. We all come in as first years bustling about trying to find our way. We pick majors, we switch majors, we join clubs, quit clubs, and try new things. It’s a part of college.

    But I want you to remember, do NOT let your major define you. I repeat. Do NOT let your major define you or you will miss out. I am a biology-chemistry major and I have not let it define me.

    Over the course of my 4 years here at Manchester, I’ve had criticizing remarks and questions about why I do some of the extracurricular things I do as a student. Anywhere from “you don’t have time for that,” “that doesn’t even relate to what you want to do,” and “bio-chem majors can’t do that.”

    Here is a list of things I’ve done, both relating to my major & completely outside of the norm for my major.

    Outside Bio-Chem:

    1. Study Abroad: I can’t stress this one enough. Many people doubted the ability to study abroad for a semester as a bio-chem major and business minor and still graduate on time. I am here to tell you it is possible and you should do it. 4.5 months in New Zealand were the most influential, fun, life-changing months of my life.
    2. Student Videographer/Photographer: Everyone needs a hobby. Photography & GoPro have always been some of my favorite pastimes. Transitioning this into an on campus job has been a perfect way for me to earn money and learn more about something I enjoy.
    3. Student Blogger: Creative writing and social media use is definitely not seen in the science department. I was a little bit apprehensive when I first started the job because I had absolutely no writing background. Over the years, my writing skills & capability to use social media to promote various ideas has progressed into something I can use in future job endeavours.
    4. MU Women’s Basketball: Manchester Women’s basketball has provided me with lifelong friends through both alumni and underclassmen. To be a member of any athletics team is a huge time commitment. The lessons of working with others, time management, and responsibility has proven to be invaluable.
    5. Intramurals: Competitively playing a sport at the collegiate level takes a lot of time, but intramurals have given me the opportunity to dive into other sports, make new friends, and keep active on the off-season.
    6. Student Orientation Leader (SOL): SOL is one of the most rewarding positions at this school. I love the fact I am able to help new students find their way. I also love being able to get to know the incoming class.
    7. Manchester Activities Counsel (MAC): This counsel puts on all the student activities around campus. I have loved being able to help put events on for others to enjoy!
    8. Students Today, Alumni Tomorrow (STAT): This committee has allowed me to develop skills in planning, networking, and communication skills with current students and alumni.
    9. Minor in Business: Many people told me trying to study abroad and minoring in business seemed like a daunting task. They questioned my ability to get it all done in time. I am here to tell you it is possible!
    10. PERC Desk Worker: This job allowed me to meet new people around campus and continue to improve my organization and time management skills.
    11. MU Men’s Basketball Recruiting Secretary: This job has given me more computer skills. Each week I create a flyer and send it out to the new recruits. I have had to learn how to use Photoshop and various other tasks that deal with Microsoft too.
    12. Fellowship of Christian Athletes (FCA): This club has allowed me to find people at Manchester that have similar views and religious backgrounds as I do.
    13. Manchester Catholics: This club also allowed me to find people on campus that have the same religious background.
    14. Off-Campus Job In Town: This job has taught me time management and how to communicate with adults.
    15. Blessings in a Backpack: This is one easy way to give back to the community. I am able to help out our local Manchester community, all while having fun too!

    Inside Bio-Chem:

    1. Chemistry Grader: I grade general chemistry papers. This job has given me a job within my major that allows me to review general chemistry concepts that will help me for senior composition tests.
    2. Tri-Beta: This is the honour society for biology. It is a good society to join for the major and looks good for graduate school.
    3. CNA in FW Hospital: This job has given me experience in the medical field and has allowed me to learn how to communicate properly with nurses and doctors.

    As you can see, I have been involved with a lot of different activities around Manchester. Most of them have nothing to do with my major, and that is completely fine. All of my experiences are preparing me for the real world and shaping me into my best self. If anyone ever tells you not to do something because of your major, prove them wrong, and go after it.

    Katie-Byers 
    Katie Byers '18 is a biology-chemistry major & business minor. A member of MAC and STAT, she studied abroad in New Zealand, and her dream job is to work at an orthopedic hospital. 

  • The Office of Multicultural Affairs

    by Zander Willoughby | Oct 06, 2017

    The Intercultural Center, you know that house across the street from Admin that they gesture to on the tour and say a couple things about it and move on. Maybe your SOL group even walked in and showed you the main room and then left. Most students never go into the Intercultural Center; there are often even rumors that ‘White students aren’t allowed there.’ I work in the Office of Multicultural Affairs in the Intercultural Center and I do my best to dissuade people that of this rumor and to encourage everyone to come to the Intercultural Center.

    For those who don’t know, there are six campus organizations under the Office of Multicultural Affairs:

    African Student Association

    • ASA meets Thursdays at 8:30 pm in the Intercultural Center
    • YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE AFRICAN TO COME

    Asian Awareness Association

    • AAA meets every other Wednesday at 8 pm in the Intercultural Center
    • YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE ASIAN TO COME

    Black Student Union

    • BSU meets Tuesdays at 8:30 pm in the Intercultural Center
    • YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE BLACK TO COME

    Hispanos Unidos

    • HU meets every other Monday at 8 pm in the Intercultural Center
    • YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE HISPANIC TO COME

    MU International Association

    • MUIA meets every other Wednesday at 8 pm in the Intercultural Center
    • YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE AN INTERNATIONAL STUDENT TO COME

    United Sexualities & Genders

    • USG meets Tuesdays at 9 pm in the Student Activities Center (SAC)
    • YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE LGBTQ+ TO COME

    OMA organizations are historically known for being the most active campus organizations (we have a trophy case in the Center to prove it). If you want to come learn about what other people’s experiences are like, try a new food, even learn a new dance, come to one of our meetings! Follow us on Twitter! Instagram! Or like us on Facebook!

    Zander-Willoughby
    Zander E. Willoughby ’18 is a Political Science & French major & Peace Studies minor, a Multicultural Affairs Programmer, and more. He is currently in his last year at Manchester and painfully aware of that fact every day. He is currently learning French and Arabic, loves cooking and amateur photography. His future plans include pursuing a Master's in International Affairs in the hopes of working with Migration, Refugee Affairs, and Human Rights.

  • We Are All In This Together

    by Delaney Ray | Oct 05, 2017

    In This Together
    The world, as we know it, is so interconnected. We may have different backgrounds, languages, cultures, etc, but we are all human, and I think that is such a beautiful thing. So far, I have made many friends from many different countries and have realized that the differences between us all are just on the surface, and we are all so similar deep down inside. We all feel the same emotions, want similar things, and act relatively alike. Take a little time out of your day to just sit and observe others and you will see how truly alike we all are.

    This brings me to the activity I participated in today: a protest march! Today, in Dublin, I marched alongside thousands of Irish students to fight against the introduction of the loan scheme system. This was my first ever protest, and I loved it! If you feel strongly about something, whatever it is, fight for it! We have loans for university students in the U.S. and many graduates are drowning in debt. There is not much I can do about our system, and that is alright, but I knew I could possibly make a difference for my fellow Irish mates.

    Don’t ever pass up an opportunity to help your fellow man (or woman) if they need it. Love and

    understanding is always the best policy! And always remember that we are all in this together!

    -Cheers, friends, and sending lots of love from “across the pond”!
    Protest March

    Delaney-Ray
    Delaney Ray '19 is a Psychology and Sociology double major with a minor in Criminal Justice. She works as a Student Orientation Leader and a Library Desk Assistant in addition to blogging for MU. She never thought she would be a blogger, and her dream job is to work for the FBI in the behavioral unit.

  • Adapting to Change

    by Jensen Lassiter | Oct 04, 2017
    As impossible as it may seem, I’ve spent the past three weeks across the pond in the beautiful London, England. Time seems to fly now that I’m actually here! I never imagined that I would ever actually make back to Europe, especially since time moved so slow last semester and winter!

    I get that it may be premature, but thus far, I’ve already learned so much, about myself and about the world. I can already notice a difference in myself. Luckily, I’ve adapted to the culture in London fairly well! I’ve experienced no homesickness (knock on wood!), but I’m sure one day the culture shock will get me!

    While I could spend hours telling you about how amazing London is, and why exactly you should study abroad, I’ll wait until I experience even more of this amazing place! I do, however, want to talk about certain challenges that I’ve already faced while here in England and how I’ve adapted.

    For those of you thinking about studying abroad but have some apprehension, let me be the next person to tell you that it will be one of the best decisions you’ve ever made. Of course there are difficult days, but you’ll face challenges back home too, so you might as well face them abroad and grow from them! It’s amazing to watch yourself adapt to a new environment.

    One challenge for me was the prospect of homesickness, which is very common. I cannot tell you how everyone deals with it, but I can tell you how I am, so you can adapt easier too. I personally knew that I would be studying in London alone, and all summer that scared me. I knew I would have support wherever I was, but I just didn’t want to experience homesickness at all.

    I truly expected my first week to be miserable. I thought that I would call my mom the second my plane landed, crying. I knew I would tell her I wanted to come home and she would try to calm me down and remind me why I was in London and all the amazing things I wanted to do. But I was so wrong. The first time I cried on the trip was when I left my mom at the automatic doors inside O’Hare leading to Terminal 5. I knew in that exact moment I was completely on my own. One of my closest friends had sent me a text message before my flight saying “You’re doing it, Jensen!!,” and I knew that I had to!

    Another challenge I’ve had to face is adaptability. I’ve had to learn to be very quick-thinking, because in the Underground, nobody really cares if you miss your stop or your train. Those things happen, but letting it stop and ruin your day shouldn’t happen. Don’t cry about it, it happens! That being said, the Tube shouldn’t scare you, you’ll learn quick enough! I had to learn to adapt to the new environment and the challenges and dangers that were associated with it. On my third day in London, a terrible act happened not far from me. There was a terrorist attack on the Tube at Parsons Green station. I couldn’t let one attack prevent me from going out. My family and friends were apprehensive about me coming to Europe with all the danger around Europe lately. I understand their concerns, and they are concerns many many people have. However, the important thing to remember is that it can happen anywhere at any given moment, letting fear rule over our lives gets us nowhere! Literally!

    I also didn’t let my illness prevent me from going out and putting myself out there. The entire first week, I battled a cold and an ear infection; that was the second and last time I’ve cried!

    Last week I spent the weekend in Paris, where I speak absolutely no French, minus ‘bonjour’ and ‘merci!’ That being said, I didn’t wait until someone decided they wanted to go explore. I took the initiative myself and grabbed a map and left! Of course I got lost, multiple times in fact, but I was able to see some pretty amazing things. For example I found this amazing spot to view the Eiffel Tower! I cannot wait to visit the Netherlands and Belgium this coming weekend!

    From the very start of this trip, from the second I arrived in my flat, I realized that I needed to be comfortable here. I knew in order to thrive and not be homesick, I needed to make London my home. Again, I needed to adapt. I knew that the hideous bedspread needed to go, superficial maybe, but the one I purchased for ten pounds makes it so much more home-y. I brought dozens of photos and post cards to hang up around my room. During the first week, our school had a poster fair and I purchased a few to hang up. The minute my things started to fill my empty room, the happier I felt. My room actually felt like home.

    I cannot tell you that I’ve figured out how to beat homesickness, because I know one day that it will hit me and I’ll be down a bit. However, I can tell you that when that day comes, I’ll go out and cheer myself up by doing something fun! Figuring out your own needs and adapting help tremendously, and I can’t stress enough how important it is to make yourself comfortable first! There are lots of resources and people out there that can help when you do experience this. A FaceTime call home always helps too! The school that you’ll study at will have resources available to you, and Manchester University has amazing resources at your disposal as well! Utilize them!

    So if you’re thinking about studying abroad but are still unsure, I would absolutely take the plunge! You can’t grow if you don’t try! As for me personally, I can’t wait to see what the next three weeks bring!

    Cheers!
    JensenLassiter
    Jensen Lassiter ‘19 is an English major. She is currently working as a blogger for MU and is studying abroad in London, England this fall. Her dream job is to be an English and Creative Writing Professor.